Long distant feelings for a guy?
Okay, so there’s this guy I used to know in Germany 6 years ago and both our parents were in the military but not anymore. so we both moved to different states and lost contact for six years. well recently, I found him on facebook and added him. so we catch up on things and exchange numbers. this was two months ago. Okay, so we’ve been talking every single day for the past 2 months nonstop and we never run out of things to talk about! We talked on the phone one time for 2 hours and afterwards admitted he had a crush on me. So every week we have been talking every other night and I gotta admit, he really grew on me. So I do like him now.. but problem is.. he lives in California. 2,371 miles away. two days and 12 hours. He just graduated and I’m 16 and a sophomore. he is gonna join the coast guard and come visit me, and he told me he’d wait till I was graduated to date if I wanted to. he’s not pushy at all. he’s not a perv. he’s honestly the sweetest guy ever, and he makes me smile all the time. he’s flat out hilarious and we have so much in common. but I don’t think he’d wait 3 years. I feel like he’d get bored of me here soon and move on, but idk. I have a good feeling and a bad feeling. we’re not in a relationship because I honestly believe those are the worst kind of relationships to have. they always go wrong, either cheating, or getting tired of not seeing one another. So I’m not so sure but I was wondering if there’d be any possibilty he would actually wait for me even though we’re not an item. I go see him in january because my family is going there on vacation and I go with, so they agreed to let me go see him but that’s still like …3 months away. so idk. but I really do like him he’s the cutest thing ever and no guy has made me this happy from so far <3
well when you go and see him, tell him how you feel and have proper cozy chats and talks about future planning. if he really loves you, it will be worth the wait for him, and for you too if you really love him. your only young still but it doesnt mean you can’t plan a future if it happens then that will be great for you both, good luck 
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